Well thanks to my dear friends who are always there for me. One couldn’t expect anyone but the parents of a child to remember the important dates in your life, but I’ve got a loyal group; my neighbor Deana never forgets and joins us for some of Hayden’s birthday cake, Cinch is there with such kind and supportive words, Carole sends me the sweetest cards and supports Hayden’s Fund, my dear friend Chris who has her own anniversarys always has a supportive email in my box and my sweet baby sister, who has become such a dear friend through all of the traumas of my life, says she doesn’t care anything about the Super Bowl – but if the Titans were playing she would watch it for Hayden.

Thanks for all the great friends who watch out for me. You’re all very dear, thank you so much. It made his 20th birthday an easier day to get through. Wow, 20 years ago today. I probably wouldn’t believe it .. except I was there. Great memories my son, thank you for those, too. Love, Mom